Im not sure I have forgiven.
I don’t know how I can forgive without understanding. Im not sure I know how to simply forgive without adding some other actual action…like forgetting, going back go how things were or pretending there is no ongoing issues.
I am not even sure what inventiveness entails….
I am 27…how can I not understand such a simple thing? I don’t know…
I don’t think the hurt goes away with forgiveness…it doesn’t mean I will trust again…it doesn’t mean he gets a do over. So what does actual true forgiveness mean?
Also…can someone who is not sorry, who is not repentant, who does not recognize or admit their wrongs be forgiven?